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May 20, 2013 by Spreading Joy

I Have Learned

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i have learnedThis year has been a roller coaster of emotions.

I’ve been thinking lately on all the lessons that I’ve learned this year and here is a quick list of 30 things that I’ve learned.

 

I have learned:

  1. Time together is a priceless gift
  2. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and those that truly love you will always see the beauty
  3. Laughter and joy are contagious and we as a society need to do more of it on purpose
  4. Changes usually end up for the best, even though the process is difficult sometimes
  5. Pain is pain and it all hurts
  6. Sometimes a phone call softens the horrid blows life throws at you
  7. Just because something didn’t turn out the way we expected doesn’t mean we failed
  8. Today is most important as tomorrow may never come
  9. The pain, struggles and issues of today help to prepare me for tomorrow
  10. Sometimes all you can do is cry
  11. Yesterday can create a wiser today which creates a brighter tomorrow
  12. That no matter how hard I try sometimes, that “it” just isn’t going to happen…and it’s ok
  13. That there is beauty in brokenness
  14. To focus on facts instead of feelings, because feelings can be and often are incorrect
  15. Those that push us away need us the most
  16. The legacy you leave is your choice
  17. That even though your heart is in a million pieces that you can still love greater than you ever imagined
  18. Unconditional love is such a gift
  19. That sometimes there is just no understanding…that’s just the way it is
  20. That even if it’s a good thing, it might not be good for you
  21. Not to let the bad times steal the joy of the moment
  22. That there will always be “something” going on, but more importantly the Lord is always by my side
  23. Not to let the shallowness and criticism of others define who I am and what I do
  24. That no matter how bad it gets, it will always work out for good….always
  25. That spreading joy without expectation of anything in return has a far greater return than anyone can imagine
  26. Anything that isn’t finished today, usually waits until tomorrow and it’s ok
  27. That when I can’t even speak that uttering a simple prayer of “Lord, help me” can bring waves of grace and peace
  28. That there is always hope
  29. That I’m not going to please people, so I’m just going to focus on pleasing the Lord
  30. That doing a little is better than doing nothing at all

 

Even though this is a mixture of good and bad…it’s truth, it’s real and authentic.

What have you learned through life’s lessons?

I hope that you’ll leave them below in the comment section and encourage those that will read this after you.

 

 

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Comments

  1. 1

    Mirv says

    May 21, 2013 at 9:36 am

    Marie, you so encourage me with your steadfastness and reliance on Jesus to provide you strength and comfort on a daily basis. I don’t even know all that you and your Family are going thru but that which you share on Social Media allows us to count the many blessings that our Lord gives us every day, your experiences and your reporting of them make a huge difference in our outlook of our lives and it gives us an opportunity to minister to you in prayer lifting up your concerns to the Creator of the Universe, how awesome is that.

    And the Lord, He is the One who goes before you. He will be with you, He will not leave you nor forsake you; do not fear nor be dismayed.” Deuteronomy 31:8 KJV

    @GodLifeTweets

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    • 2

      Marie says

      May 22, 2013 at 3:53 am

      I know beyond doubt that it is due to the prayers of so many faithful friends that we/I make it. I also know that God gives me this so that I can remind people that they too, will make it and can have joy along the way.

      Thank you! you are a blessing in my world, and I’m thankful for you!

      Reply
  2. 3

    Tracy says

    August 18, 2013 at 3:13 am

    Hi Marie – I loved your post and I loved the practicality of it. I believe our walk is a daily one and a practical application of the bible, God’s word and how He leads and guides us every day. Again, great post. You left a comment for me over at Encourage 24/7 about your link you left in the blog directory. I have deleted it and would love for you to re-submit it with the hope that the pic will show this time.
    God bless
    Tracy
    http://www.mydailywalkinhisgrace.com
    http://www.encourage247.com
    Tracy recently posted..Winsome Wednesday – It WILL Happen!

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    • 4

      Spreading Joy says

      August 18, 2013 at 12:17 pm

      Done!! and thank you for checking us out – and spreading joy!

      sometimes a little encouragement is a world changer!!

      Reply
  3. 5

    Ralph says

    August 20, 2013 at 5:29 am

    I learned that not all people who have been with you is your friend only those who will be there for you.

    Reply
    • 6

      Marie says

      September 10, 2013 at 12:13 pm

      I understand… sometimes the worst pain is the feeling you have left over when you find out that someone you loved, trusted and thought was a friend is not.

      keep holding on to the true friend…those are the ones that matter

      @spreadingjoy
      Marie recently posted..God Promised

      Reply
  4. 7

    Shelly Hendricks (@Renewed_Daily) says

    November 16, 2013 at 1:35 pm

    So much of this list resonated with me! Thank you for sharing our heart to encourage others! Heart Hugs, Shelly <3
    Shelly Hendricks (@Renewed_Daily) recently posted..Recommendation Saturday: Change Your Words & Launch of Link-Up!!!

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  5. 8

    Alice M. Cross says

    February 5, 2014 at 10:56 pm

    I will never get anywhere if I
    don’t take the first step.

    Reply
    • 9

      Spreading Joy says

      February 10, 2014 at 6:45 am

      thank you alice – this is so true! i know that first step can be crazy scary, but once you take it, it’s easier to take the next one!

      thank you for adding to the conversation!

      Reply
  6. 10

    Ayodeji says

    February 5, 2014 at 11:57 pm

    Thank you so much Marie…I have also learned that life doesn’t become easier we must become stronger and courage because the Lord is with us and will NOT leave us.

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    • 11

      Spreading Joy says

      February 10, 2014 at 6:47 am

      So true. We do become stronger, day by day – as our faith is strengthened.. I love that no matter what, God will never leave us and is right in the middle of every thing!

      thank you for adding to the conversation and for the wonderful reminder!
      Spreading Joy recently posted..He Strengthens Me

      Reply
  7. 12

    Mike Broom says

    February 7, 2014 at 8:37 am

    I think the lyrics to an FFH song helps describes one of life’s lessons that I have learned in my walk with Christ. “Trouble may find me, but it’s not going to keep me down. Cause I’ll hold on tight to the Father that loves me and likes having me around. He loves me, he cares for me and so I’ll be. Alright” No matter what life throws my way, as long as I hold on to the Father, I’ll be Alright.

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    • 13

      Spreading Joy says

      February 10, 2014 at 6:49 am

      I love ffh as they have lyrically rich songs. i just love the fact that Christ walks with us 🙂

      thank you for adding to this conversation!
      Spreading Joy recently posted..The Challenge of Commitment

      Reply
  8. 14

    Nisha says

    June 12, 2014 at 1:17 pm

    Love the lessons.

    Reply

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