My Mom
I’m under the influence. I hope this influence never, ever – EVER ceases to…well, influence.
Who has influenced you to become more than you think, that reminds you of the strength you posses and encourages you to take the next step, regardless of how dark it is.
For me, there are several, but my Mom stands out more.
There are a million or more things about my mom that I love, adore, cherish and makes me smile!
She turned 71 on May 20th of this year and this is my attempt to just honor her in a way that she will know how much she has meant to me, although I’m doubtful that I could ever express the love that fills my heart.
I’m a random gal, so these are done randomly…..of course.
- My mom expecting the best from us, no matter what
- Listening to my mom remember yester year
- Being able to take her to Daytona Beach & Disney, knowing that she would do it for me
- Growing up to “be” my mom, she is a hero in my eyes
- An afternoon just sitting with her on the porch swing
- My mom, just being herself
- Being only a phone call away
- My mom’s heart for others
- My mom’s determination to do right by us kids even though she’s never had much herself
- My Mom’s strength in the middle of the most difficult times
- That “look” from my mom
- My mom’s smile
- How she influences me….always, even when she isn’t around
- Teaching me that hugs can sometimes be more powerful than words
- Showing me I could trust & value the decisions I make because she gave me a solid foundation
- Allowing me to Make my decisions & then teaching me to “own” them
- Reminding me that it’s ok to stand alone, as long as I’m standing on what is right
- Not accepting my excuses, no matter how “good” they were
- Putting up with my antics
- Teaching me that kindness means more than getting ahead
- Things and times may change but the truly important things….never change
- Knowing she is an angel here on earth
- Always knowing that no matter what, someone cares for and BELIEVES in me
- Knowing my mom would give me the world on a platter if she could
- For loving me through thick and thin…literally
- For her helping hand or gentle shove, which ever was needed the most
- And even though Angie was adopted, for loving us all equally.
I could share so many more and sometime may.
What are some things that you love and adore about your mom or someone that has greatly influenced your life?
WHO has influenced you and what is the most important thing you’ve taken away from that?
Encourage others and share your story in the comments below.
photo: my mom at the daytona racetrack finish line 5/16/2012
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Very nice article! I had two of the most godly, loving grandparents I could hope for, Jim & Mary Palinkas. Miss them more than I can say!!
thank you Jim! Grandparents play such a huge part in the lives and hearts of their grandchildren. The lasting effects goes on for generations.
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Hello again!
My mother is my biggest influence. Like I once said, I do believe my mum is actually one of the heavenly angels sent on a special mission… Seriously…
I have learnt most of Life’s lessons from her especially how to grab on common sense in the tightest situations. She is one very strong woman. Silent but knowing… She successful turned her baby into a lady and I will forever love her no matter what. Her birthday is May 6th.
I pray I have plenty opportunities to do great things for her.
Beautiful article again Marie…you do have a gift for appreciation.
BIG HUG
Thanks Keren, appreciation is such a huge thing but something we all can do.
I just cannot imagine my world without her. 🙂
This is so sweet! All I want to do is hug my mom and thank her for everything she’s done for me. I love this post because it’s honest and personal, but also made me very aware of the people of whom I am the product. Thanks for that reminder and for your beautiful writing!
Thanks Sarah,
we do tend to look over the people we are a product of. We wouldn’t be who we are without them.
I’m still working on that one….
We all are Andrea!
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Love this. So precious!
Thanks Marissa! I appreciate you stopping by!
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Such a sweet post! My mom is my best friend and #1 fan, she has taught me so much and influenced my life in so many ways.
They are gifts aren’t they? Thanks Allison for sharing with us
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This post made me smile and think about my mom! I see a lot of parallels between my mom and yours.
It amazes me that many don’t see the good in their moms. They focus on the hard times, the things she did wrong and do not see her for the gift she truly is.
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My mother is a strong woman who is takes on a lot in her everyday life! This is one of the things I love about her!
Servant leader – that is awesome. showing you the perfect way to give back daily.
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My mother went to heaven November 2014, very unexpectedly. I was so thankful she knew that I loved her. Too often we don’t share our thoughts until it’s too late. My mother lived the “fruits of the Spirit.” And she radiated joy – every. single. day.
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Ohhh Pamela, I’m so sorry!
wow – radiated joy! that is such a sweet legacy to leave!
thank you for sharing that! praying for you as you make your way on this journey with out her.
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Nice! This is kind of neat how you had other people say something about there moms.
Mihaela,
I love hearing about other peoples Moms and how they influenced them. Many moms wonder if they ever made a difference and I always tell them 100% yes.
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I was lucky to know my mom but we never had a wonderful relationship. I always thought she was beautiful and still do but she suffered from some emotional issues and was never well enough to connect and care for us.
oh Angie, that is so unfortunate. Some things can do that. I’m so sorry but love the fact you found some good in the situation.
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Awww this is a beautiful tribute to your mom and she sounds like such a wonderful woman. You’re blessed! I would say my aunt was this for me. There’s not a day that I don’t think about how I can add a piece of her legacy to my life. Thank you for this!
That’s awesome Brittney! we are leaving a legacy and those that influence us are leaving part of their legacy within us.
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What a wonderful testimony to the greatness of your mom, Marie! I’m so glad you were blessed with her, and I’m sure her influences are now modeled to your children through you. What a great legacy. 🙂 For me, the people that have had the most influence for me have been three Christian friends that God has put in my path over the years. I’m so thankful for their love of the Lord that they share with me to inspire me. In fact, two of them also led me on the track of writing for Him. Blessings, Marie!
My mother has also been a great influence on my life. I am who I am today because of her legacy of faith, and I hope to leave that kind of legacy for my children.